Fr. Ron Rolheiser, omi

IN EXILE

February 18, 2002

(First in a series for Lent)

The cross of Christ is like a carefully cut diamond. Every time you turn it in the light, you get a different sparkle. It means so many things: Its depths can never be fully fathomed. More meaning always spills over.

We can never get our minds around it, but – and we sense this – ultimately the cross is the deepest word that can ever be spoken about love. No wonder it is perhaps the most universally cherished symbol on earth.

How can one begin to unravel the multifarious levels of meaning carried by a cross?

The best place to start is with God. What the cross tells us, more clearly than any other revelation, is that God is absolutely and utterly non-violent and that God's vulnerability, which the cross invites us into, is a power for community with God and with each other.

How does the cross reveal God as non-violent?

We are forever connecting God to coercion, threat, guilt, reckoning, and the idea that a power should somehow rise up and crush, by force, all that's evil. That concept is the main reason why so many of us fear God, hate God, try to avoid God, or are disappointed in God. ("Why doesn't God do something about the world?")

But what scripture reveals about God, and this is seen full-bloom on the cross, is that God is neither guilt nor the great avenger of evil and sin.

Rather God is love, light, truth, and beauty – a gentle, though persistent, invitation that's never a threat. God is like a mother, gently trying to coax another step out of a young child learning to walk ("Come on, try, just another step!").

God exists as an infinite patience that endures all things, not as a great avenger – Rambo and John Wayne – who kills all the bad guys when he has finally had enough. The cross of Christ reveals that God works far differently than our movies and our imaginations do.

God never overpowers anyone.

Radically, of course, God could. God has all the power. However God's power to create love and community paradoxically works precisely by refusing to ever overpower. Instead, it works through vulnerability, through something the Gospels call exousia.

What is this?

The Gospels tell us when people witnessed Jesus' life and ministry, they saw something that sharply differentiated him from others. "He spoke with great power, unlike the scribes and Pharisees."

However they use a curious word to name that power. They never say that Jesus spoke with great energia ("Wow, is he energetic!") or dynamis ("What dynamism!"). Instead they use the (Greek) word, exousia, a word with no English equivalent, but whose meaning can be conveyed in an image.

If you would put the strongest man in the world in a room with a newborn baby, which of these two beings would be more powerful? Obviously, at one level, the man is more powerful: he could kill the baby if he wanted.

But the baby possesses a different kind of power, one that can move things muscles can't. A baby has exousia: its vulnerability is a great power. It doesn't need to out-muscle anyone. A baby invites, beckons, and all that's moral and deep in the conscience simply cannot walk away.

It's no accident God chose to be incarnated into this world as a baby.

It's no accident either Jesus died on Good Friday. The cross reveals the power of God in this world, a power that is never the power of a muscle, a speed, a brilliance, a physical attractiveness or a grace which simply leaves you no other choice but to acknowledge its superiority and bend your knee in obeisance.

God's power is the power of exousia, a baby that lies helpless, muted, patient, beckoning for someone to take care of it. It's this power that lies at the deepest base of things and will, in the end, gently have the final say.

It's also the only power upon which love and community can be created because it, and it alone, ultimately softens, rather than breaks the heart.

And it's a power that invites us in.

It's good to know this so we don't give into bitterness and grow vicious ourselves when we are slighted and can't defend ourselves, when our dreams are crushed and there's nothing we can do about it, when we so desperately want to do something that stands out, but haven't the talent to do so, or when we find ourselves a minority of one before a jeering crowd.

The cross tells us at those moments of painful helplessness, when we can't impress or overpower anyone, we are acting in a divine way, non-violently, and in that vulnerability lies the secret to our coming to love and community.

(Website: www.ronrolheiser.com)